2026
- David "Joe" Sanders

- Dec 26, 2025
- 4 min read

CHRISTMAS IS BEHIND US
Christmas 2025 is just one day behind us, and we are waking up to a new beginning, welcoming in the new year in less than a week from now. Just because Christmas is behind us does not mean that the joy of giving should be behind us. My family was just introduced to a struggling young single mother that had been fired from her job for leaving the area to attend her grandfather’s funeral. My eight-year-old grandson had the biggest smile on his face as he handed her $100 from the Bonded kitty. The joy of giving is definitely something we can practice all year long.

TRANSITION-PLUS
2025 was the beginning of a new and better phase in my life. I was welcomed into a great group therapy, called Transition-Plus. The group consists mostly of Vietnam veterans that are still dealing with PTSD from as far back as the mid 1960s. One of the remarkable things about this group of men and women is that in the thirteen years since forming, they have not had one person turn to suicide. You can visit their website at Transitionplus.org. And if you are a veteran that happens to be in the League City, Texas area on any Thursday evening please stop on by. Veterans and service members from all time periods are welcome. Looking forward to another great year in 2026.
2026
2026 is just the beginning for Bonded a Brother’s Love. The book was published in late August of 2025 just in time for the National Suicide Awareness month of September. We are still in our infancy and looking for ways to grow. Striving to be a part of the many organizations out there that fight suicide on a daily basis. My 70th birthday is in January 2026 at which time I will be retiring from any type of paid work and will be dedicating all of my energies toward suicide prevention. I can tell you from what I learned in the past few months I’m expecting 2026 to be the best year of my life.

PREVENTING ONE SUICIDE
I am expecting 2026 to be one of the toughest years of my life and one of the most rewarding. Our goal for 2026 is to get verification from just one person that our book, Bonded A Brother’s Love was the difference maker in deciding to not take their own life. We believe that can happen and from there to save many others. To do that I have to live everything suicide, I’m eating, drinking and sleeping with thoughts of ways to prevent suicide, which is not only making it tough on me daily, but also gives me a very rewarding feeling inside just to know that the chance of saving someone exists for us.
NEW YEAR, NEW FOCUS
The focus isn’t just starting with the new year, but the focus is very new to me. I have gone from someone that would rehash my personal devastation in my mind daily. Never finding an end to the replay even though the outcome was always the same. Now when I think suicide the focus is on preventing someone else’s suicide. I still get eaten up with my own memories, but I am finding ways of flipping those memories into reasons for prevention. Reasons to keep others from having to live like this by focusing on prevention.

BONDED A BROTHER’S LOVE 2026
Speaking of focus. I have gotten a little off focus since the book release. In the beginning I wanted to sale books to reach more people, to prevent more suicides. But I found myself getting caught up in other organizations that are already going strong with their prevention practices, so I have joined in and put my backing behind their efforts. The truth is my book is different. It doesn’t sugarcoat anything. I spoke straight from the heart and straight from the memory of how devastating a suicide can be. That story has to be told and has to be heard. So, for 2026, starting on my retirement date and birthday in January the whole focus will be getting books into as many hands as possible. If you can’t afford one and are struggling with suicide ideation, contact me on my personal email david@bondedabrotherslove.com I will send you a book at no cost to you.
WISHING YOU A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR
My sincere wish for all of you out there is that the new year brings you new opportunities and that you are prosperous in everything you do with your life, not just in finances, but more so in your faith. Goodbye 2025, Hello 2026.
THE SIMPLE TRUTH, WHEN IT COMES TO SUICIDE, TALKING SAVES LIVES!!
**Reach out to me at any time.
I am not only willing, but I also look forward to taking a share of your pain. Email: David@bondedabrotherslove.com. You will get a caring same day response.
Nothing scripted.
You are not alone, and you matter.

If You’re Struggling
If you or someone you love or know is in a dark place, please know you’re not alone and there is help available. Reaching out is a sign of strength, not weakness. There are people ready to listen, ready to walk with you, and ready to help.
Immediate assistance is available:
National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
📞 988
Veterans Crisis Line
📞 1-800-273-8255 (Press 1) | 📱 Text 838255
Survivor Support / Crisis Group
🌐 https://www.crisishotline.org 📞 832-416-1177
💡 If you know someone who needs to hear that they are not alone, share this story. Together, we can create echoes of hope that outlast the pain.
For more than five decades, I carried this story in silence. Silence nearly broke me, but telling it is what keeps hope alive.
Bonded: A Brother’s Love : One Bullet. A Thousand Echoes my hope is that it offers understanding, connection, and even a reason to hold on when life feels unbearable.
📖 Order your copy today and join me in breaking the silence. Together we can spread hope, honor the lost, and change the future.







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